The Quiet Book - The Dress Up Page, TAKE TWO

So I have decided to start over with the dress up page. I wanted the ability to dress up a boy or a girl and I tried to make hair for both but the hair is so little and thin that it will defiantly fall apart quickly with the pull of the Velcro and I would be remaking it over and over again.

So I have decided to make this page TWO pages that will face each other in the finished (cough, cough!) book. Looking something, sorta, like this:

Can you see the problems?

The poor girl has no neck at all and seems to have her head permanently kinked to one side and the boy has the same tilt to his head so they must be related, right? *sigh* 

And... the clothes, while cutsie, are thin and will have the same issue I was worried about with the hair on the original page. *sigh*

Hmmmm... to start over or not to start over... THAT is the question.....

Not to mention HOW to get the Velcro to not only stay on but if I use sew on Velcro, HOW do I hide the stitching??!! 

Ummm.. help? Someone? Anyone? 
How is this done??!!! 

I see another few hours trolling blogs and you tube tutorials in my immediate future... good by nap-time!